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does anyone else with bpd have a tendency to get along best with narcissists and assholes? my closest friends were like that for the longest time
i even remember leaving my old group of friends to be friends with a guy that was bullying us back in middle school because i thought he was funny and was a 4chan retard like me, and eventually i had to block him because he kept sending (unpaid) pizzas to my house

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1 へゆりの住人(´･ω･`) 2024/09/29(Sun)12:37:09 No.12734

People with BPD are narcissistic assholes, so it makes sense.

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2 へゆりの住人(´･ω･`) 2024/09/29(Sun)21:39:49 No.12739

have any personal experiences?

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3 へゆりの住人(´･ω･`) 2024/10/05(Sat)02:02:27 No.12821

narcissists end up getting along with borderlines because they both feed into each other's ego and vulnerability... i will copy-paste some interesting commentary about this phenomenon from a website called "recovery ranch" mona2

"Why Are People with BPD Attracted to People Who Are Narcissists?"
>Those with NPD often display manipulative and controlling behaviors in relationships. People with BPD, on the other hand, may seek validation and attention from others to validate their sense of self-worth, making them vulnerable to the charm and flattery of narcissists.
>Additionally, people with BPD may be attracted to the confidence and assertiveness of narcissists, which can be appealing to those who struggle with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. However, these initial feelings of attraction can ultimately lead to a toxic and damaging relationship dynamic.
"The Relationship Dynamic"
>People with BPD often experience emotional dysregulation, which can make it difficult for them to regulate their own emotions. This means that they may be more likely to be drawn to someone who appears to have their emotions under control, such as a narcissist. However, this dynamic can quickly become toxic, as the narcissist may use their partner’s emotional instability to control them.
>Another reason why people with BPD may be attracted to narcissists is because of their fear of abandonment. People with BPD often have a deep-seated fear of being abandoned or rejected, which can make them vulnerable to manipulation. Narcissists may leverage this fear to control their partner and keep them in the relationship.
>Many people with BPD have experienced trauma in their lives, which can make them more susceptible to unhealthy relationship dynamics. Narcissists may exploit this vulnerability, using their partner’s past trauma to control them and keep them in the relationship.
TL;DR: crazy attracts crazy. foruda

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4 へゆりの住人(´･ω･`) 2024/10/09(Wed)14:57:21 No.12842

I have BPD but I've never gotten to know anyone, to my knowledge at least, that has NPD. My two best relationships, at least since I was diagnosed, have been with a girl who had ASD and another girl who had BPD.

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Anonymous 2024/10/09(Wed)07:38:01 No.2268 [Reply]

oppai suffocation! (ﾟ血ﾟ#)

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Anonymous 2024/10/06(Sun)05:06:36 No.118730 [Reply]

A while back I asked Heyuri which game from my list I should play next and the first person chose Half-Life. I finished it tonight and it was pretty awesome. I never grew up playing many FPS games as a kid so playing a game like this where you have to actually be tactical and bullets actually HURT like a motherfucker, unlike in, say, Doom or Quake, was novel. The second half or so of the game really, really stuck out above the first. Surface Tension was a hell of a chapter and was what really got me hooked... partially because it was so hard and made me level up. And the final levels were gorgeous and maddening...

I will play the sequel before long, but I'm in the mood for something else first. Like last time, the first poster will choose my next game:
Hollow Knight (2017)
The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time (1998)
Fallout 3 (2008)
Super Mario Bros. (1985)
Shadow of the Colossus (2005)
Metal Gear Solid (1998)
Final Fantasy VII (1997)
Chrono Trigger (1995)
Silent Hill (1999)
Castlevania: Symphony of the Night (1997)

Also let me know if it's annoying to keep throwing the choice back here when I beat something. If it's seen as spamming, I won't do it again. biggrin

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5 Anonymous 2024/10/06(Sun)08:01:32 No.118746

dang it i was too late, do give shadow of the colossus a try sometime, i think its a game everyone needs to experience at least once in their life
i hope you are a patient man

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6 Anonymous 2024/10/06(Sun)14:47:47 No.118797

I'm happy that sotn was chosen before mgs. Be sure to have your sotn save and your mgs save on the same memory card, OP

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7 Anonymous 2024/10/06(Sun)17:48:00 No.118850

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Silent Hill is my favorite game of all time, you only have to watch the opening once and everything becomes clear, it gives me goosebumps until this day
https://inv.nadeko.net/watch?v=T_BhLbB3M9A
PLAY IT NAOW NEGRO!!!

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