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Now, I've never actually been to a therapist (thank god), but in my second year of high-school, people in my year kept getting busted for doing crazy shit, (like the boys were climbing school buildings, and torturing monkeys, and the girls were stealing test tubes to use as sex toys, and shitting in the middle of the bathroom floor (all unrelated incidents)), so they hired some sort of trained psychologist, who each of us had to see at least once a week. I think they made me go to work on my 'porn addiction', which was discovered at an earlier (super awkward) meeting (interrogation) between me, my parents, and the principal.

Personally I was fine with this arrangement, since my session came on Friday afternoons. I got to cut class and basically considered it an early start to the weekend. However I think this psychologist lady was a hack. She started right away making inferences about me that I didn't identify with, and I think she was just barelling along with generalized therapy-speak and hoping I would respond (considering she was seeing several dozen students a week, would it really be possible for her to focus on any one of us?)

I remember one time I told her I liked to draw, so she told me to come back for the next session with one of my drawings. I forgot all about that until 10 minutes before the session in question, and I rushed out some bullshit drawing without thinking too much. (It was some kid sitting on a beanbag chair, eagerly watching TV, if I remember correctly.) When I showed her the drawing she spent time analyzing it and humming like she was comprehending something, and I was kind of worried she would realize I rushed it out. But she looked at me and said 'You know, going by this drawing, I think you're kind of a nervous person, you know, with how sharp the lines are, and how the kid is leaning forward in the beanbag chair, I think you're kind of a harried person, there's a lot of nervous energy in this drawing."

And I had to try really hard to hold back laughter, since I was thinking 'Well of course there's a lot of nervous energy in the drawing, I did it in 8 minutes before I got here to avoid turning up empty-handed!'

Anyway I never really had a breakthru with that psychologist, maybe because I wasn't 'open' enough. ( I had a suspicion that she was giving reports to the administration, and if I said anything incriminating they would call my parents and turn it into a disciplinary case.) And after that I left the school cause we moved too far away, so I never saw her again.

Anyway, what are your own personal experiences with therapists/counsellors/psychologists?
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I've seen various different people - from the "guy at school that the problem kids get sent to", to several years of seeing various psychologists/psychiatrists/therapists (some I was forced to, others I purposefully seeked out)

My conclusion was that 99% of them suck and aren't qualified to do their jobs, and any benefits they might bring about are placebo + sunk cost fallacy at best ^^;

2 major things helped me escape the situation I was in:
1. finding sum good people on teh interwebs who had the patience to give me advice after I asked for help (this was 2015-2016, not sure this is even possible these days with how much more retarded everyone is)
2. one particular therapist giving me the idea of breaking down the steps to overcoming my issues into the tiniest of baby steps (to the point where each individual step was very easily doable) - they were otherwise totally useless and too expensive (for a NEET, but the cheaper ones sucked even harder)
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my parents sent me to 2 psychologists years ago because they thought I am mentally ill. I hated them both. I refused to go to them. In my opinion, unless you are critically mentally ill then you don't need them.
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I saw many since my early childhood (all forced by parents), apparently my parents and various teachers suspected I was autistic... But I wasn't.
One of them diagnosed me with major depression and gave me heavy SSRIs during my adolescence. I was sure at the time that they had no effect on me, so one day I just quit using them and felt no difference afterwards. I was either diagnosed wrongly, the medicine had no effect on me, or perhaps my brain is too b0rked purin

One of the last ones I visited told me I could have a certain situation, which sounded reasonable to me. If he was right (I am still not 100% sure myself if this is the case), it has no cure and I can live just fine without treating it. My parents were starting to give up too, so I didn't visit many of them afterwards.

Bonus: One of the first things nearly all of them would ask me was if I hear voices that weren't there, some asking it multiple times. Whatever that implies aside, should they even ask that to the patient himself? O_o

>the girls were stealing test tubes to use as sex toys
Hawt! Did they ever return them used?
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>>7052
>Hawt! Did they ever return them used?

Not as far as I know. The story is that a group of them were caught in the bathroom during an assembly ( when most people in school could be counted on to stay away), showing each other how to use it safely, and apparently showing each other this trick where they roll it over and over in their hands and press it between their thighs so that it ends up warm. The implication is definitely that it was sort of a common practice. I don't know what exactly 'showing each other how to use it' implies. Maybe it was talk, or maybe they were having some kind of orgy in there. I like to imagine the latter.(´¬`)

If it was very rampant, it may well be that they returned some used. nida
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>>7052
Actually, thanks for reminding me. It occurs to me that I stole some lab equipment too, for my own bullshit home experiments. I didn't use everything I stole, so I might have a test tube with residual manko juice lying around somewhere...ヽ(゚ρ゚)ノ


Site Discussion@Heyuri
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Please get rid of the 3D CP on /b/, thank you kindly
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>>65028
>>65029
Thank you my beloved administrators
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pol scum in lounge
https://dis.heyuri.net/lounge/koko.php?res=6933
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would this go under literal pedo shit? of course theres no nudity but its puting a child in a sexual context. https://img.heyuri.net/b/koko.php?res=74744
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As long as it's not the "annoying"/newgon wiki-ish type of pedo, like that guy in the thread whose images (though I couldn't see them on time) were deleted for being MAP propaganda stuff, "literal pedos" or sexualized images of children (as long as it's not at a level that would cause legal troubles) r not banned. Stuff like loli panchira or old style pedo captions (i grabbed this pic from macrochan) are fine.

When it feels like it's promoting some kind of agenda such as stuff on https://www.newgon.net/wiki/Memes_and_Graphics , that's when I think it enters into B& area.
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>>65070
1st thought it was christcuck spam but after closer examination it seems to me that's some /x/ stuff.huh
Don't know what's that got to do with /pol/...unsure
If you're referring to the word 'Nigger' we use on certain occasion on here.cool
SO REFRAIN FROM MORALFAGGING PLOXangry


Site Discussion@Heyuri
Is Heyuri against Tor posting? Whenever I post via Tor I get lots of messages telling me I'm banned but they keep giving me different dates and reasons for the ban.

Also sorry for asking this in the wrong thread. And my cat just pooped on my bed.....
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tor test 5
I think most tor nodes are b& ever since range bans were introduced
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tor test 6
huh, I guess theyre not anymore
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tor test
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Do you even know how the TOR network operates?rolleyes
Maybe several exist nodes are banned here...nyaoo
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Most Tor exit nodes these days seem to be hosted on Cloudflare's datacenters, and/or I believe Cloudflare also keeps track of exit nodes and has some kind of special routing for them in order to give their users the option to block them - either way, they nearly always show up like this on Kokonotsuba's mod panel:
2405:8100:8000:5ca1::8f:5c6e
2405:8100:8000:5ca1::7e:d0d7
2405:8100:8000:5ca1::75:c9ac
2405:8100:8000:5ca1::76:5fb7
etc.

This means:
1. they stick out liek a sore thumb against all the usual IPv4 addresses of regular/VPN users
2. if we range ban 2405:8100:8000:5ca1 (which we temporarily do whenever it's being abused), it blocks the majority of Tor users xd


Lounge@Heyuri
Had to dropout from university because I got expelled from home and I'm a kissless virgin on top of that! Does anyone have a harder life?

My only electronic is an old cellphone where the touchscreen doesn't work properly. I'm 23yo.

Listening to jpop and grindcore on my cellphone when I have charge is my only cope.
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>>7005
Maybe he should just man the fuck up
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what country?
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Let's all pray for nigra nii-san! (´人`)
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hang in there hnn
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holy shit and i thought that my life was shitty (;゚Д゚)!
you are in my prayers, and because my god is actually real (unlike all your fake n gay gods), good things are to come homeless nigger nii-san! iyahoo


Site Discussion@Heyuri
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testing to see if cookies save, since they didn't earlier
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test


日本語@Heyuri
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ぺろぺろされたい


Site Discussion@Heyuri
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I'm curious, has the sell of banner space provided the desired results? did Kaguya deny placing some banner or have all the requests been given the greenlight? If not, what kind of ad would you deny 100%?
Image completely unrelated
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I can't see how many people have clicked to the banners, but I am happy with the results so far biggrin
It's just supposed to bring some activity/traffic to the sites/boards linked there.
>did Kaguya deny placing some banner or have all the requests been given the greenlight
So far all proposed banners were added. I don't want to add more banners to Heyuri's front page/the Off-Topic board (I am considering removing some of these in the future). There are few conditions for banners to be added too, you can read >>64431 for details
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I've been thinking if we should change teh konata push banner from heyuri to lounge. It is a easy change for me and as we do not have a banner for lounge that could be good idea?
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it's hard to make a banner for a site that has no images
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>>65105
go ahead nyaoo
I think the curry banner should be one of the 300x100 ones too if it's easy to do
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Making curry to 300x100 is harder. So might as well thow it. It's my least liked banner nyaoo-closedeyes


Lounge@Heyuri
I FUCKING LOVE FRIED CHICKEN! THE OTHER DAY A CAR CRASHED INTO THE TREE IN FRONT OF MY HOUSE AND THE DRIVER WAS KILLED INSTANTLY!! BUT ALL WAS WELL BE CAUSE HE HAD FRIED CHICKEN IN THE BACKSEAT THAT REMAINED UNHARMED!!! I WOULD MURDER THE PRESIDENT FOR A BUCKET OF FRIED CHICKEN!!!!
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fRIEDDDDD CHIKKKEN IS GUD!!! saitama
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something tells me this isnt the real chris from barcelona spain foruda
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Fried chicken is NIGGER FOOD!
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roast white man is NIGGER FOOD

get it right you horrible racist ヽ(`Д´)ノ
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I thought we were eating the other white meat
What have I been eating this whole time? (;´Д`)


日本語@Heyuri
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やっと涼宮ハルヒの憂鬱を観ようとしたけど、英語のサブタイトルに問題があって
まあいい、俺らは日本語ができるんだもの、とサブなしで第5話まで観たけど
もう俺の嫁であるかわいい長門ちゃんのいう事を全然わかんなくて、
あの問題を解けて第一話からもう一度みることになった
結局時間の無駄でしたdark


Site Discussion@Heyuri
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trolling is an integral part of the old internet, why is it banned on heyuri?
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whenever i try posting via tor I'm always bannned for some reason. is heyuri against tor posting?
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I don't think that relates to this thread
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I once gave a bullshit explanation on something relating post numbers, the quote feature and quoting the OP that i pulled completely out of my ass. Did anyone save that?
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>Did anyone save that?
If it was on Site Discussion it's probably still up, but if it was on Off-Topic then probably not sweat2
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>>61303
the trolling has to be good, it cant just be some rulebreaking spam e.g. some nu-internet meme over and over
also, heyuri wont, and cant emulate EVERYTHING 2000s--you aren't seeing copious amounts of illegal videos like child and snuff porn


日本語@Heyuri
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Sekibanki


2D Lolikon@Heyuri
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-. .. --. --. . .-. ...
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>>3301
Oh, I get it, I mean I'm not nameless anymore
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>>3311
Mmm guro
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>>3312
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>>3313


2D Lolikon@Heyuri
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That's all I have on hand.
Should my next dump be another h-manga or something like this thread?
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I will fap to whatever you dump!
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Your standards are too low


2D Lolikon@Heyuri
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Here's a collection of loli mangas by Inuboshi. Like last time I'll post them one at a time to make them more digestible.

First up: [Inuboshi] A Young Girl's Melancholy -Ema's Case-
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Nice to see someone else on here while I post. Are you liking this thread so far?
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I get notifications for all new posts ヽ(´ー`)ノ

Yes I liek it, but keep in mind this software can't handle threads bigger than few hundreds of posts - it usually starts to have issues around 400~ posts
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Ah, I'll post the rest to a new thread then. Thanks.


Lounge@Heyuri
Almost all of us are probably SO RORNEY and probably won't ever get a companion in life, but if the time comes and the opportunity presents itself. Would you get a girlfriend?
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>>6166
I will talk to you
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>>6022
yea, it is a lot of responsibility, its not easy as "i have a gf ok the end", you cant treat her like a friend, its a lot of maintenance
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>>6917
From what I've heard, treating a girl like a friend totally dries them up sexually.
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no, i want a friend to have similar to same interest as i do. if she wants sex, ill do it.
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No I'd rather have a male best friend. My best friend passed at age 18. I'd rather have someone like him again.


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