Who here on Heyuri is also hikikomori? It has been 8-years for me.Marked for deletion (Old)
around 6 months for me
>>113919You may like it now but it will get worse overtime.
>>113920>You may like it now but it will get worse overtime.we will see
>>113921In a few years i will be an 8050 problem hikki sadly.
over 15 years for me, more than half my life. I'd rather die than work.
>>113923>I'd rather die than work.Same here and i don't want to live past my 30s.
I wish I hope to at least get teh next month off so I can enjoy summer holiday by not leaving my roomWhat would u do if your parents/relatives hired a rental imouto to change your hikki ways?https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/proginfo/2018/42/bbc-world-hackssounds familiar from somewhere...
>>113925>What would u do if your parents/relatives hired a rental imouto to change your hikki ways?Well i don't live in Japan but if i did and that happened i would pay her to fuck me if she was hot af and then kick her out.
I'm not a hikikomori in the strict sense because I can still go outside sometimes, usually with my mom. I don't normally go out alone and I might stay inside for months but rarely past the official treshold of 6 months. However, I'm a NEET. I have been NEETing for almost a decade now.
i been working as a full time employee for seven years now... while it gotten easier. I still miss my time as a fulltime home-security guard! While it only lasted around 2 years~. It was teh best! I still try to save some money each money to just "fuck off", and leave all behind. Live as cheap as possible and not working. Having a job isn't really worth it, as money & buying things is teh only thing which work gives you. And when you bought everything you want, it's rather "useless". You end up buying things one think one want, but it's just another shovel to fill teh hole of working 8 hours a day. What's saddest about working is teh time you spend there each day - i see my coworkers more than i see any other of my family.
The only thing worse than not having a job is having a job. I ended my NEETdom a week ago and already miss it. But I really want to move and I need to set up some kind of profession that I can find to live independently in a new state or country.Being a NEET is weird though. When I have all that free time I can never find the motivation to do anything. Whereas I suddenly have some drive to do whatever like play games or read VNs or watch anime when I'm working. It sux that my brain is like this, but I guess most humans probably have something that makes them respond better to outside pressure... like when we were cavemen and had to wake up with the sun or be ready to respond to the habits of animals for hunting and fishing or whatever. If you have transcended this and can fully create your own structure for a NEETly existence without going insane from depression or loneliness, consider yourself one of the lucky ones.
>>114016same for me, that's why having nothing to do sux
>>114016the modern work environment is awful ヽ(`Д´)ノyour work has no impact on your survival beyond pay, and Man was not meant to endure such a thingyou have ideas when active since in prehistory, you would be able to implement them, you'd think of stuff you should do and then you'd get to itwhile you lack ideas during times of leisure to keep you from squandering what would otherwise be a limited period of free time for one whose work directly impacts his survivalwe are out of the bounds that we were forged inand now we are lost... ( ´,_ゝ`)
the pear is unbearable? I don't get it...
I've been for more than 3 years and i hate it the pain of being inside and my only personal connection with anyone is my grandma that i live with is horrible I've been comp templating suicide for such a long time cause of this and it never goes away maybe I'm just overthinking it and i should enjoy my time being like this probably or go get a job and find some irl friends.
>>114021Read it again
>>114033Why do you need a job to talk to people and make friends? Do you live out in the middle of nowhere and it costs a lot for fuel to drive to the nearest town? If you live in a town just walk or ride a bike.
>>114035This heavily depends on the country/city you're in.like, my family is from Trinidad and you could totally do that there, just head out into town and talk to people and make friends that wayin the meantime, where I live in the US, it's not happening ┐(゚~゚)┌you might have a shot heading to videogame or card game tournaments and making friends with the other entrants -- managed to make a few friends that way here ヽ(´ー`)ノ