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No.759
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why cant i find a guy who wants a real relationship anymore ? its been over a year since my toxic ex and i broke up, ive dated once since, and he just lovebombed me until he got what he wanted :c im so tired of even trying anymore
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No.760
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W-what is love bombing? :sweat:
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No.761
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>>760
its like when they give you alot of empty compliments, pretty much like drool over you but they dont actually mean any of it :cry: and sometimes its hard to tell if its real or not.
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No.762
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>>761
how do you know whats faking and what real? :sweat: :sweat2:
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No.763
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>>762
DING DING idkkkkkk :blush::cry:
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No.764
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>>763
what did he do to make u think it wasnt real? (;ﾟДﾟ)
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No.765
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>>764
i made him wait to have sex, and once he got he left :ccc stayed with me for like a week after
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No.766
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>>765
:emo:
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No.767
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Rest assured, /j/ will not abandon you. 🐧
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No.768
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can you think of anything you may have done or said that grossed him out?
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No.769
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are you exclusively dating normie men? weird men? do you ever feel like youve fucked your own head too much on the internet to relate to other people or are you still relatively normal when it comes to love
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No.770
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>>769
he was a normie which was a first for me, and my ex before was chronically online, like i am. and idk but ur prob not wrong.
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No.771
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>>768
nooooooooo, he was trying to be a provider so maybe it just got to be to too much???? his reason was "im not in the right headspace" but literally the day before was saying how much missed me
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No.772
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>my toxic ex
virgins website!!!ヽ(`Д´)ノ
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No.773
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>>761
Guys who do nothing but compliment you are psychos cause they don't feel bad about lying. Guys who do not compliment you are psychos cause they don't feel bad about making you sad.
Guys who aren't psychos exclusively date girls who are confident enough to not care about compliments since it's the only way they won't feel bad.
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No.774
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i think love bombing or "fauning" is a defense mechanism for ppl who really want to be liked. agreeable men will do it because they fear being rejected, it probably comes across as manipulative because on some level it is, because the person is laying on the positivity to protect themselves from negativity/rejection. They want sex, but you saying no would hurt so they instinctual dump affection to get the desired result :sweat:

fauning as a psychological phenomena is different from sociopathic flattery because it comes from a place of vulnerability rather than cold, calculation. fauning behaviors come from emotionally abusive childhoods, in the case of guys it probably comes from women who were way too critical of them as children which turns into this chronic fear of rejection that manifests with manipulative strategies.
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No.775
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>>774
my experience: 20+ years pathologizing men in my spare time
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No.776
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>>774
so i was pretty much used again :cry: ?

what really confused me, is he texted me the other day on my birthday, i cant tell if hes just being nice or trying to leave the door open for sexual advances ? and i feel pathetic enough to not say no if that were to happen. i literally did everything to be as perfect as i could for him so I JUST DONT GET IT. it has to be my mental health issues, or he just fetishized me cause of it and got over it
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No.777
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>>775
does it ever get better ? thats like most of my lifetime :nyaoo2:
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No.780
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You like indian man? Me love you big time preety white girl
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No.782
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>>780
just threw up a lil :mask:
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No.783
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ive been single five years, i get you, losing hope here (´～`)
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No.784
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Try over 30 years :xd:
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No.788
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>>784
thats older then me : c im so sorry girl
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No.789
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>>765
lmao
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No.790
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maybe date an ugly guy instead of only going for hot men. there are plenty of indian, filipino, vietnamese, chinese, nigerian, pakistani, indonesian, etc guys willing to date you. just lower your standards.
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No.791
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>>790
i agree with lowering your standards, but there's no need to send them to hell LOL
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No.792
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>>791
yah wth lolllll i prefer asian guys
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No.793
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>>792
What about asian guys without plastic surgery? :glare1:
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No.794
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>>793
ive never dated a guy whos had that lol ? and half my family is chinese so idk if you thought i had unreal expectations or something ?
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No.795
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>>794
zomggzz gurrll looll
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No.796
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（ ´_ゝ`） can we have a nice thread, pls? it was going well... b4 all the trolling
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No.798
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>>796
yah idk what happened :cry:
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No.819
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>>794
which side is white. i tend to notice those with white father/asian mothers look more ugly than those with asian fathers/white mothers
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