Let's list societal nuisances:1. Walking the wrong side of sidewalk, stairs2. Standing in the wrong side of elevator and escalator3. Failing to form straight evenly spaced queues with extra space in front of it for people to walk around it4. Being loud in public transport or yelling in public, making sounds in public like munching, chewing, wheezing and other unnerving sounds, having notifications with sounds, phoning, making that slurpy sound when your nose is runny, besides obvious sounds like burping or farting - these are marks of barbarians5. Eating and drinking things that smell in public (not just bad smell but any smell) especially in public transport, not limiting eating in public to fixing hunger but eating recreationally unless it is a place designated for it like outside a restaurant6. Speaking in a daring manner to strangers (I am not your pal to call me bro or dude), speaking languages other than the national majority language in public7. Failing to place luggage and big things they carry under the seat in public transport, taking up more seating space than necessary, sitting nonchalantly and making physical connection with people who seat next to them or touching their belongings8. Smelling like ciggies in public, like alcohol, smelling like human excrements, failing to bathe or take a shower for long days but also not using perfumes whose strong scent makes the environment unable to peacefully travel unbothered by pungent smells whether "bad" or "good" smells9. Blocking way with shopping carts, belongings, bags or backpacks on the back, or body itself 10. Chewing when talking to people11. Yawning with mouth open12. Eating ice cream or bananas in public (it looks terrible)13. Starting up a complaint with an assumption of guilt (instead of respectfully questioning and waiting for more evidence of fault to slip up before judgement)14. Having urge to and complaining about stuff that is obvious instead of proposing solutions (there is no point in breaking harmony even further by being frustrated)15. Littering with things that don't disappear for long like plastic, heavily modified paper or glass (receipts or used tissues are acceptable to throw into tall grass or rivers because they disappear fast and serve the plants, not toxic)16. Letting dogs go entirely unsupervized especially without a muzzle on its mouth (I had way too many encounters with angry dogs, they are the sole reason I carry a spring knife or surgical scalpels when outside each time I leave the house, I hate dogs and I despise people who own dogs)Now more specific, that would elevate a civilized society into saint societyMore nuisances:17. Not controlling dogs and they bark at everyone, loud sounds are to be avoided, and dogs barking is disrecpecting people on behalf of the owner (I feel disrespected each time a dog barks at me and I want to restore my dignity it by gutting the dog, I feel disgust towards the owner each time and I do not forget it and do not forgive it)18. Failing to deliver promises as the host, or as initiative giver (heavily losing credibility and respect, preseting themselves as not a serious person and as a liar. If you spark an initiative you either deliver each expectation in their entirety or cover yourself in shame).19. Inviting people to your house who are not your close family or extremely close friends of decades (showing people who are not entirely on your side into your house is a death wish)20. When inviting people from core inner circle into house the entire visit - failing tatemae - (visit is not entirely preplanned, family is not entirely disciplined what to show and say and how to behave around the visitor, showing more house than necessary, failing to tend as a host, having a house that is not perfectly cleaned and fresh smelling and failing to set it up in a way that it looks rich and efficient, or at a very least pleasant)21. Showing lack of privacy in public (like blasting sounds and songs from apps without any regard, browsing phone or other device in a manner that everyone can see the screen - the assumption is if there is nothing you hide then your personality has no depth and no self control - very bad signs)22. Showing or hinting at own impatience in public, forcing your way to exit or enter buildings and public transport first at all cost instead of doing it orderly23. Showing power level in public (there is a fair chance of presenting yourself as arrogant and ignorant egocentric that instantly repulses anyone in immediate environment who is listening whose power level is even higher who could help that person grow in that field, this frustrates the better person who not only does not feel a duty to pass more knowledge and experience on that loud enthusiast leading to information and experience loss on societal scale, besides growing hatred and contempt towards newbs as a group which benefits nobody)24. Giving people any excuse to accuse you of anything (if you do not wish to be bothered by anyone then give them no reasonable suspicion of fault, this creates chaos and it benefits nobody - it is not to pretend to be a saint or compare yourself to others but purely because people getting angry benefits nobody)This is for collective self improvement. I can't figure out more as of now. I wish for heyuri to expand this list and contest my observations. No cynicism or ragebait intended.I picked the image because I find it interesting looking
25. Wearing an adult diaper in public, especially when it's just recreational26. Soiling your adult diaper in public, especially on public transport27. Masturbating in public, especially if pants are down and genitals are visible, even worse if ejaculate comes out28. Throwing soiled adult diapers in public trash cans or just dropping them on the floor29. Purposefully disregarding the toilet and just shitting, pissing and/or cumming on the floor in public restrooms
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i don't have much of a problem with 4 or 5unless they are being annoying(ex listening to loud music or watching video on the phone)or breaking norms(like talking loudly about extremely private things)6 I dunno I always enjoyed talking to random strangerヽ(´ー｀)ノ12 I don't get it19 seems to me that you live in a very low trust societyan ideal society for me should be high trust .
6, 12 and 16 aren't nuisances, you just aren't normal, is all, OP.
>speaking languages other than the national majority language in public"""people""" that do this deserve to BURN TO DEATH
>12. Eating ice cream or bananas in public (it looks terrible)Personally, I'm for making the public more erotic.I advocate a society where all members can masturbate while loudly moaning, even in crowded public transport, or have casual orgies with total strangers in streets as long as it doesn't block the trafficFrotteurism harms noone! I should be able to walk around naked, find young girls in trains and push my erect PENIS to their soft cheeks until I orgasm. Likewise I mean, I would fine with ugly old women casually using my legs to masturbate too, so I don't see a difference.Furthermore, there are people who would be fine with consuming excrements. It wouldn't harm the public order if someone loudly announced they wanted to pee or take a shit, so someone could volunteer to make their mouth into a toilet for them. This could be normalized to a point where 80% of the population have a fetish for eating it, so everyone just casually announces they want to pee, from little girls to old men to see if someone is up to be their toilet.
Like, live and let people live, dude ヽ(´-｀)ノ
I'm thinking on starting to use AI to fix my writing because I can't read it myself>>142768>6 I dunno I always enjoyed talking to random strangerヽ(´ー｀)ノI mean specifically lack of boundaries and bad manners>12 I don't get itGet a popsicle and look at yourself in the mirror as you lick it, gross >19 seems to me that you live in a very low trust societyI live in a rather high trust but there is something wrong with sharing contents of house, layout, whether there are extra locks or not and so on to people who could betray you. It is very intimate to me.>>1427696 to me speaks of lack of self control and lack of ability to choose language in a given situation, further implying lack of knowledge or lack of will to participate in social hierarchySir is the way to refer to strangers when face to face, not broTry to finish a popsicle looking at yourself in the mirror, you will be terrified I don't wish for you to get bitten by dogs with rabies, in my proximity it is sufficiently common that I have an issueIt is not a good feeling when a dog barks, dashes around, goes in circles around you and so on and you have to stand your groundI had the luck to never actually get bit but it is always scaryIf the next dog decides to bite I will post the dead dog to heyuri and we will stuff it for the next bunkasai>>142770No we do not do the triple quote on heyuriI think that wrong language disturbs peaceI want foreigners to learn and speak it in public, i want to make them learn customs and participate in them, interact with the society and adapt local sounding namesTime and time again I refuse to speak english for migrants when they approach me to ask something>>142771>>142772I get it, I mean hypothetically good manners
there are a few I'd agree with (9) but a ton of this is unhealthy (19 and 20 in particular are reactions to a dangerous society and not a healthy one; 12 is merely lame, 14 breeds complacency in a deep seated way, 6's second half)the basic idea of 21 (not bothering others) is okay, the rationale is stunningly shallow at bestultimately, C- (・∀・)some is an attempt to generate order, but a lot is personal grievance disguised as societal good ヽ(`Д´)ノ
>>142774You're right the rule that we need to wear clothes in public isn't based on anything besides people's deep seeded personal grievances and irrational hatred
>>142775in some place it is improper to be dressed (publich baths or showers)is called a private part ,but it isn't a privacy concern to have your PENIS seen.I mean is good to cover yourself but it's completly unrelated.
I'm going to start doing everything on this list.
>speaking languages other than the national majority language in publicI guess if someone did this expecting you to know their language and getting angry at you for not knowing... you know... a language that's not your native tongue, then yes. I think annoyance would be a justified emotion to have. But most people I've seen do this tend to speak to fellow speakers or otherwise their own social circle. Even people who asked me if I spoke Spanish (I don't) didn't get upset about it. They just on their merry way. Unless it's the former scenario, I don't get how this is a nuisance. Maybe this is a country-specific problem?
>>142842Not OP, but I live in a country where most people are of the same nationality and speak the same language, so when someone speaks foreign language, especially loud, I do get annoyed. Unless they are tourists, if someone lives in a country like mine, they should speak the official language in public. They can speak in their own tongue at home
i think i do everything on this list. but you know, i'm also a ghost that never bothers anyone irl