How do people make friends? Genuine question..i dunno if many heyuri users have friends but if you do how? I can never make any online or in real life Marked for deletion (Old)
We're all friends here!! ( ´ω`)（⌒∇⌒ゞ）
I haven't had any friends IRL since school, and I can't be bothered to build/maintain online friendships beyond my Heyuri-related activities ヽ(´ー｀)ノ
>>140469Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay~!
why do u need friends?
share ur xmpp and we can be friends
Same, I don't understand how conversations work, nor how to start one. Sometimes a conversation happens, other times I don't know what to say and I can never tell why.It also feels easier to talk with someone when I'm not trying to be friends and am just fucking around.
>>140472I get pretty lonely. I sit in my bed at least 16 hours a day. 23 in weekends
>>140473Im scared ro share it on heyuei T_T maybe i could make an alr first
>>140474Me too. I have autism so even when i do tall to people i say something odd or act weird when i dont mean to. I also dont even know where to talk to people onlime
i have the same problem but i did start meeting people for the first time in my life by playing ddr at the arcade. i struggle with social interactions so any potential friendship with these people fizzled out though.
Sorry for typos on a bus
>>140479Awwh! Nobody ever talks to me in re life. Wish id meet friends playing taiko!
If you have matrix you can add me: @mercy44:midov.plUsed to have a nice heyuri friend that I'd watch films with, but he disappeared. If you'd like to watch movies with me, I'd enjoy that.
>>140482Uuuuu id love to b ur friend but i only have xmpp and a disc
>>140479I used to talk to ppl at a pump it up arcade but since i got 2 ltek pads i dont leave my house LOL
>>140483Ok, I've never used XMPP but I made an account: ddlg93@5222.de
>ddlg93@5222.deAre u the DD or the LG?
>>140481the secret is to not isolate yourself. when other people are playing i'll sit near the machine and watch them and they'll invite me to play with them.
>>140473Anonsan@hookipa.net
>>140484i go to the arcade while i'm supposed to be working
A cool arcade close to me opens up next week. They have ancient machines like ddr 4th, dancemaniax and beatmania 7. I will go there a lot for sure.
Im Autistic and also extremely shy in real life so i tend to hide from others>>140487
>>140486Does that matter? I thought you wanted to be friends. But DD cause someone was on here looking for one a little while ago and I made it just for that.
Maybe you should try chatting on https://cgi.heyuri.net/chat/It might be less anxiety inducing than talking one on one.
>>140492i'm also autistic and shy. being able to not avoid other people is a very recent development in my life that came from having to interact with people for work. i still can't initiate interactions with people but i'm no longer afraid to be around people and can chill when they interact with me.
>>140495I lurk there a lot but im EXTREMELY shy and im not a namefag so idk how to even start a conversation. I get extremely embarrassed ill mess something up
>>140491there's an arcade near me with older ddr machines but they don't maintain them properly so the pads don't registered properly the arcade i go to just has newer ddr machines which lack the older classic ddr songs but make up for it with a lot of fun denpa/moe and vocaloid songs.
>>140501In my country that ddr 4th is the only ddr machine. But we do have some modern piu but i dont like the songs on piu
>>140504i watch people play piu sometimes but i don't like the songs on it either so i don't play
>im not a namefag so idk how to even start a conversationgrab a random nick, click join, wait until u see something you can contribute toOne of the reasons I prefer group chats because I can join and leave whenever I feel like ヽ(´ー｀)ノ>I get extremely embarrassed ill mess something upI promise to not understand anyways! Just don't break the rules
>>140500don't worry about messing up. just be yourself because the only people whose opinion of you matters are the people who like you for you.
>>140507>>140506I dunno…im really bad at adding to conversations and im super scared to talk to anyone. I actually just started using heyuri again too..i havent used it im like a year
>>140496Awwhh thats great
>I actually just started using heyuri again too..i havent used it im like a yearWell, welcome back ヽ(´∇`)ノIt's fine to be scared. I first learned to interact with other humans by anonymously posting on imageboards
>>140510Ive been posting threads like everyday!
the only irl friends i have are people i've known for nearly my entire life and i wouldn't have it any other way personal internet friends are fickle, you'll find. for as much as everyone here likes posting with each and other, the chances of making real, lasting connections on the netz are quite low - even if it can feel great when they're just budding. don't beat yourself up about any of it either way, your own company is always the best kind of company
i forgot how to make friends in high schoolduring high school it was random and not my effort that i managed to get a decent bunch of friends that invited mebeen at uni for 2 years though and i dont know anyoneone talk i had was when i had english as a foreign language class for the first time and it was a spoken assignment in pairshag gave us paper strips with questions to pick and answer and they were like 'what music do you listen to' or 'what hobbies you got' and it was very scaryi did not reveal the power level but dude was enchanted by my answers it seemsi havent seen him since, i showed a paper and got max grade for not attending the next dayit felt like i was being molested mentally
>>140500You kind of have to namefag if you want to make friends, how else will they know who theyre talking to? if you already go there why not just say hi.
>>140529Uu..in really awkward and shy. Id feel so embarrassed if i did and if feel like everyone would hate me
>>140535to make friends you have to start somewhere. give it a try, whats the worst that could happen? if you do get embarrassed does it even matter ? you can always just leave or change your name..
>>140536Yea i guess ur rite….ill think on it…thank u
Teh key to Chat@Heyuri is to not think at all, but instead to immediately fart out whatever comes to mind
>>140539Id end up saying something retarded
>Id end up saying something retardedThen u'd fit right in!
XD
>>140540my life changed when i stopped worrying about being retarded and began to embrace it
>>140540you'll fit in great!
>Id end up saying something retardedPlease do not worry about saying something retarded if you are already retarded.
dont bother with real life friends. people irl are always going to be fake and use you in one way or another. i prefer making friends online! they share my interests and humor more than any irl friend ever has.
a bit late for the thread but if someone wants to add me: senko@xmpp.social
ever since I entered adolescence i haven't got one single irl friend lmfao i suck
Error from senko@xmpp.social: User session not found
Every irl friend I made stabbed me in the back so I have trust issues now
>>140637Me too
>>140632sounds like your client's issue anon..
>>140622i wish i understood how to xmpp
>i wish i understood how to xmppIt's similar to email:1. Register an account with an XMPP provider ( https://providers.xmpp.net/ - personally I use xmpp.jp, and I would recommend avoiding ones based in Germany or other ghey countries)2. Download & install an XMPP client (depends on ur OS. One that supports OMEMO encryption is best: https://omemo.top/ . On Windows I use Psi+ cuz I prefer the oldsk00l UI, but n00bs mite prefer something liek Gajim)3. Add ur account to ur client4. Add sum contacts5. Say hello to them6. ?????7. Get partyv& for cybersexing with minors PROFIT!!!
>>140654i actually registered an account with xmpp.jp last night but i didn't know what to do from there and when i went to the web client it sent me to a chat filled with third world scammers. is there a windows client with an interface similar to irc? something like hexchat?
>>140654actually psi+ reminds me of aim so i'll probably use that. thanks!
>>140660there is a xmpp client that looks like irssi.its called profanity. i use it every day.
>>140667oh cool i used to use irssi back in my linux days
>>140467Are we dumping XMPP accounts here? Talk to me about stupid shit: amlux@xmpp.earth
>>140480>on a busdamn, your ethernet cable must be long
>>140667Profanity looks like an IRC client and settings can be a pain to set up, also there are no media previews.
The last friend I had of the past 8 years has changed a lot, and has clearly moved on and found more preferable friends. I feel lonely, but it'd been a long time since we'd watched anime together or talked about loli or done anything together really, outside of briefly talk. I'd really rather avoid this kind of slow death again... （ ´,_ゝ`）
>>140687I mean why not, it's better than being loners
>>140479>i did start meeting people for the first time in my life by playing ddr at the arcadeMmm this sounds kinda fun. I'll see if there are any local arcades I could go to.
i have many friends but i don't talk to them
luchiz@jabbers.one (XMPP)Naked girls here I come. ヽ(´ー｀)ノ
I havea few but i don't know how i made them, i also have heyuri which is even better
>>141232heyuri arcade meetup 2026
ive basically lost all my friends within the span of the last year, i just stay in more often and sleep more
I will join thee!bishopu@xmpp.jp
Error from bishopu@xmpp.jp: Messages from strangers are rejected
>>141446Oh I think I fixed it.I needed to log into account on .jp site to turn of spam blocking which blocks any messages not on my contacts list.
Heres mine suiseitou@xmpp.jp
>>140467Mayhaps you could try wut normies do all the time. Connecting thru common interest! I mean like attracts like after all
my interests are avoiding people and waiting to die ( ´ω`)
>>141481wao we have so much in common! ヽ(´ー｀)ノ What's your phone number (・∀・)