90% of the time it's うえ or ジョウ

上がり or 上げる & 上げさせられさせられる are just other forms of 上がる that will come naturally once u get used to it

leave lerning 上る to when you see 登る (and 上り・上せる etc are again just other forms of it)

たてまつる is kenjougo, and I don't think 上 is used for it. You won't ever see it

>>112343
well, the 90% aside am i supposed to understand which form to use based on context? if so that should be something i have to learn later on when i actually expand my vocabulary
i also see some dashes and dots like in the pic, what do they mean?

>>112357
nips first learn to speak and then learn to write
if you learned to speak first and then learned to write it would not only make sense but would be easy to remember too
learn words first, writing should come only after you are familiar with the word in an ideal situation otherwise brain finds it hard to put written and spoken into two separate categories and lumps them in the single 'strange&unknown'

>>112358
alright, thank you

i seem to find a lot of kanji that are listed with a yu-u "translation", is that a catch-all word for something?
also for the longest time i thought 100 is "hi-ya-ku" but it's actually "bi-ya-ku" (;´Д`)
i hope i'm not annoying you guys with these threads

I'm not sure what you mean by yu-u translation, but it's not uncommon for some kanji to change initial sounds to the "soft" versions if it's part of a compound. It's called 連濁 (rendaku). Examples are 手紙, 本棚, 目立つ、悪口 etc

>>112605
basically among the hiragana/katakana "translations" you can see in the op i recall seeing something like 3 kanji having "yu u" listed on top, i was wondering if that's a special word of some kind since it appeared more than once

also if you look at the op what do you think the dashes mean? i assume the dots mean a pause but i'm not sure about the dashes

>>112607
dots aren't pause they tell when kanji ends and hiragana begins:　あ.げる　上.げる
dashes mean they come after other stuff, like 父上　（ちちうえ）

Also I'm still not sure what's "yu u"... Probably unique to that word

dont forget about at least the commonly found nanori

how many counters for long cylindrical things do you have in your home?

>>112800
PENIS is a cylindrical object and, hopefully, a long one. Can I use this counter to count PENISes?

>>112805
we dont have a frame of reference, that kanji could consider a 10mm cylinder "big", or maybe it considers a 1164 astronomic units long cylinder "big"
we just dont know