honestly, my view on this whole thing is simple: the irl loli posters are visibly more interested in pushing their generally believed to be illegal across the English speaking world fetish (one that has been slowly getting clamped down in Japan too, and a lot of the Japanese presence was due to it not being illegal; CP production was banned in 1999 there and possession in like 2010 lol, but they also have a different definition of CP there too, so anything they do cannot apply to a site that isn't populated by Japanese users or hosted in Japan ) and are surprised and belligerent when there's any push back despite that

(for anyone mentioning 2d loli, it is generally believed to be under 1st amendment protection in the US, but the concept of obscenity does make it so that it is theoretically possible to lose a case; state rulings tend towards obscenity, but federal rulings have tended towards it being free speech, all cases I've heard have included IRL children alongside 2d loli media; things vary across Europe but enforcement is noted to be low, unlike with 3d loli media)