The of teh rulez is "have fun", some people are over-overthinking what's allowed and not allowed
Most of the time, when we delete posts with buzzwords it's because they ruin the fun/create a tenser(?) atmosphere.

For example, rules state "based" is a B& word - it indeed is and I've deleted many posts over it. But think of a scenario where a new user who isn't well versed about rules makes a longpost that's generally fun and informing, and then a user calls him a newfag over that one word, which post do you think sux in this case? This is based on a real event from the past

I'm trying to say don't over-worry about the rules. Just try to follow them the best you can, but let us handle deciding what is allowed and not allowed. And if/when you don't like our decisions, you can of course complain on Site Discussion@Heyuri so we reconsider them.

>I only realized after the post was through and I was rereading it
If you regret making a post, you can always delete them and repost it in the way you like.

As for the word "cringe" see >>63390 - I am not the one to talk about usage of these words in old or day-to-day English