Ask yourself "assuming you have unlimited power and no one will stop you, what is the kind of person you want to be?" Make sure that you are able to tell apart "what you want" and "what other people want you to want".

The one thing I've noticed is that a lot of internet people tend to be "prescriptive" in what they call themselves. That is, if someone is considered a "fujoshit", and because fujoshits usually enjoy highly depraved yaoi fiction, that person "forces" themselves to "enjoy" yaoi to "prove" that they are a "real" fujoshit. Other examples I can think of are forcibly acting emo and gloomy if you decide to dress gothic or darker colors, and the opposite if you dress pink cotton candy madoka dresses. Horrible scenario

I have no idea what I am talking about, but it seems like you want to have an "identity"(?). Usually I try to make the words I use "describe" myself, but not allow them to "define" myself so I don't have that problem. Also the idea I have for the kind of person I want be is "the kind of person I would want to hang out with" . I don't know if this is helpful OP.

> I honestly don't have any specific new image in mind.
Picture!