just distance yourself enough from people that they never ask enough questions to get there (´人｀)
to be fair i was decently internet cautious as a kid so i never used my names on anything, i can't relate to the fear of discovery. if i did get discovered i'd certainly have alot of weird conversations that will annoy me (;ﾟДﾟ). Yeah, i do like futas mom. Why do you keep asking