>>155434
Pretty much all of my IRL Frens know I post on 4chan all the time. I don't make a secret of it. But, like, I don't defend 4chan and all the bad stuff that frequents that site and all other chan sites, so that helps my case.
My immediate family knows cuz I also don't make a secret of it, but my extended family? Nah, they wouldn't understand. But frankly, I keep a lot of things from my extended family. Gotta keep up appearances, and whatnot.
I also don't make a habit of telling people I observe to be normies, like my former co-workers. But again, it's simply none of their business, and they don't care anyways. As long as I'm professional, no one gives a shit.

So, no, basically everyone in my life knows I'm an Anon, and they haven't murdered or ostracized me.
Don't be paranoid, OP. Smoke some weed, it'll help with that paranoia~