>1. men will be sycophants, pretending to be interested in things you're interested in, will act as if they hold your ideas in higher esteem, generally won't criticize you harshly and will defend you if anyone does. it doesn't feel sincere at all though, of course.
The assumption is that men are acting "fake" towards women in order to gain favor with them, while acting "true" amongst themselves. While that's certainly true to some degree, I think that having guys & girls together in one space unlocks a better balance between men's "overly harsh & critical" nature vs. women's "overly kind & accepting" nature - revealing something akin to our "true" human nature. It's unnatural for teh sexes to be as segregated as they often are online, so the behaviors seen in single-sex environments should probably be viewed as the "fake" ones

Besides the obvious "b00bz = win", I personally enjoy having lady users around. In my experience they are more fun to interact with, are more likely to maek OC, and they have magical activity-boosting powars - so it makes sense for me to be more accomodating to the rare female user that shows up compared to the dime-a-dozen male user

I'd liek it if one day Heyuri was 50% female