>yeah, you ever don't need to touch it if you just want to put a page up, but it is there, and thus affects how people use the service
Not only can you not touch it, but you can turn it off entirely by either disabling the profile page feature, or just disabling comments if you still wanna use it as a site updates blog or changelog or whatever. Plus you can delist your site from Neocities by setting it to 18+ and then promote your site the normal way via word of mouth, link collections, etc.

"If I treat it like a social network or a community, I am a n00b who fails at Internet" applies to both the people browsing Neocities sites and the people making them. If you stick a hammer up your ass then you fail at construction, but that doesn't discount its usefulness as a tool when used properly

>whats nekoweb like?
Like Neocities but stricter and based in fucking Germany