Well I'm a NEET so I have all the time in the world but I would say if the desire to watch anime doesn't come naturally then don't force it. There are other otaku adjacent passtimes you may enjoy like vidya, drawing, collecting and saving pics into your hard drive. I don't know, I think it's better to be honest with yourself and don't force yourself into being a diehard otaku if you weren't born one. I'm telling you this because it sounds more like you make up excuses to "fit in" rather than being honest. I mean, an episode is 23 minutes on average, I don't believe you can't find 23 minutes a week to watch an episode.