>i wish i understood how to xmpp
It's similar to email:

1. Register an account with an XMPP provider ( https://providers.xmpp.net/ - personally I use xmpp.jp, and I would recommend avoiding ones based in Germany or other ghey countries)
2. Download & install an XMPP client (depends on ur OS. One that supports OMEMO encryption is best: https://omemo.top/ . On Windows I use Psi+ cuz I prefer the oldsk00l UI, but n00bs mite prefer something liek Gajim)
3. Add ur account to ur client
4. Add sum contacts
5. Say hello to them
6. ?????
7. Get partyv& for cybersexing with minors PROFIT!!!