you need to rethink what having a "life" means, when it comes to women.
You want her to have a "career" where she works for some other guy and has no time for you?
Or a social life with petty drama, consumerism, relationships?
"life" for a woman right now is empty if youre not into that stuff.

if you have a good person and a comfortable life, enjoy it.

Things arent going to be so good much longer, the world is becoming very dark, so enjoy comfort while you can.