I started dating her when she was 16
She was a hikki, and... Is still a hikki. I like hikkis, I used to like Tomoko a lot, so I see nothing wrong with that.

The thing is, we have been together for a lot of years now and I have been doing everything (Cooking, cleaning, working...) because of this, she has never had to do anything at all, not even socialize with people IRL if she does not feel like it (she does not feel like it 90% of the time)

Am I ruining her life by letting her be a hikki? I mean, if I die or whatever IDK what will happen to her... She's clueless about sooo many things, and she's so innocent too...