In an ideal world, raising a daughter would be totally risk free.

A boy would born to be raised by only his dad, study and pay taxes until they are 60 years old.
Then they can retire and have sex with a random government-assigned 12 year old girl, have her give birth to exactly one male and one female humans (abort the babies if there is a surplus). After she is done breastfeeding her children, she would be your maid/sex slave until you die. You would raise the boy, and take your daughter as your wife and have a lot loving sex together for 12 years. With her first menstruation, the government takes the daughter and gives to another 60yo guy (by this point you would be like 72) so she can bear his children and be his maid/sex slave until he dies.

This way all men would pass their last years happily and we wouldn't pollute our genes with inbreeding!